Dressing in a feminine way means following a series of principles that make one’s femininity aspects more obvious. If you like to dress elegant and feminine and don’t know where to start, read this article.
What does dressing like a woman mean?
In today’s modern world, the variety of clothes is huge and the ways of dressing are even more diverse. Today, it is not like in the past that all members of the society follow a single dress code and if someone wears it contrary to it, he has broken the taboo. Think of the Victorian era; All women wore full pleated skirts with petticoats and petticoats, sleeves and collars had a certain shape, hats and hairstyles followed a certain style, gloves and handbags were essential, and even the type of shoes was prescribed.
Nowadays, it is much easier to get dressed. One wears sports and the other wears classic. One prefers formal and the other casual. However, each of these has its own rules. For example, you should know what kind of clothes are suitable for classic style and what you should wear for sporty style. Similarly, if you want to dress elegantly and femininely, you need to make more informed choices.
Tips to dress elegantly and femininely
Lady is what is called lady in English and its meaning is different from woman which means woman. As a woman, you can try on all kinds of clothes and dress however you like; But when it comes to dressing like a lady, you have to observe some restrictions in choosing clothes and dress in the most delicate and feminine way possible. The following points are very important:
1. Start with the basics
When it comes to dressing more feminine, basics are key. Wear clothes that fit your body and make you feel comfortable. Don’t try to wear something just because it’s fashionable.
2. Classic style is a better choice
Often times, the most feminine items are those that are used in classic styles. Skirt and blouse or stylish women’s shirt are the best choices.
3. Choose soft and high-quality fabrics
One of the easiest ways to have a more feminine style is to choose soft and delicate fabrics. Silk, cotton and other natural materials, on the one hand, make you feel more comfortable and on the other hand, create a sense of elegance in your appearance.
Choose high-quality fabrics that will last. The materials and textures your dress is made of have a huge impact on how feminine your dress looks. Fabrics like cotton, silk, wool, suede and leather are great options.
Although you should work on your curves when dressing feminine, that doesn’t mean you have to show them off unnaturally. So, avoid very stretchy fabrics like spandex. This is not a dress that gives you a feminine style.
4. Accessories should be selected in minimal mode
Regarding accessories, it’s easy to say that women’s style doesn’t need a lot of them. A delicate chain with small earrings and finally a delicate watch or thin bracelet is enough. You don’t need to hang all the jewelry you have in your closet to have a feminine style. By the way, this is a big mistake.
If you are into statement jewelry, at least choose the minimal set. It is enough that it completes your dress and adds to your beauty.
5. Wear natural and soft colors
Color selection is one of the most important principles that you must follow in women’s style. Natural and light colors are better than bold colors for women’s style. For example, pink, yellow, beige, ivory and light green are great for feminine style. However, this does not mean that you should completely avoid colors and only go for neutral or very bright colors.
There are two important points here:
The first point is that you should consider the color according to your skin. For example, if you have very light pale skin, beige and ivory colors will give you a ghostly look and are not a good choice.
Another point is your interest. For example, pink is a feminine color (at least so far we’ve been told); But if you don’t like pink, don’t choose it. If you hate yellow, you don’t need to wear yellow. In a word, if you don’t like a color, you don’t have to choose it for your feminine style just because it’s feminine.
6. Choose the right shoes
For a more feminine look, heels are always a must. High-heeled shoes make you walk more stylishly; Something that is not possible with sports shoes. Don’t worry, you don’t want to choose heels so high that your feet hurt or you might fall. A medium heel is feminine enough. Do not forget the type of heel; Heels are more feminine than platforms.
7. Do not run away from skirts or shirts
Skirts and shirts are both the most feminine clothes you can wear. By the way, these clothes are multipurpose; That means you can count on them in different situations.
8. Put away the jeans
Giving up jeans is scary for everyone who loves them; Because it is a great outfit to wear during the day. However, jeans have no place in women’s style; So whenever you want to dress feminine, put away the jeans. Choose a skirt or shirt instead and keep your favorite jeans for your casual style.
9. The length of the skirt and shirt should be appropriate
We said that skirt and shirt are both essential items in women’s style. However, the key point in choosing them is their height. The length of skirt and shirt should be chosen correctly. In feminine style, the hem of your skirt should reach just below the knee, mid-calf, or ankle. Any skirt shorter than this will have no place in a woman’s style.
Remember that you should pay attention to your height when choosing the length of skirt and shirt. Their size should not make you look too short or too tall. You can try different sizes to see which one fits you best.
10. Pay attention to your silhouette
When you want to dress feminine, first of all, pay attention to your silhouette, that is, the outline of your body. Women’s clothes should shape your body, define your body curves and, on the contrary, cover your body defects. The best clothes for women’s style are clothes that make you look slimmer.
11. Stick to plain clothes
When it comes to women’s clothing, solid colors are always the most attractive choice. Try to avoid busy patterns and choose something more subtle instead. In pictures of stylish and well-dressed women, you rarely see busy patterns. Therefore, single color shirts will be the best option.
12. Lace is the best fabric for women to wear
Throughout history, tour has been inextricably linked with women’s style. The reason is the excessive elegance of lace fabrics. Lace is a wonderful fabric to add a touch of femininity to any outfit. Try to choose a blouse, skirt or shirt made of net. These dresses give you an elegant and feminine look.
13. Respect your feminine feeling
One of the most important principles of dressing in a feminine style is to love your femininity. Wear something that makes you feel beautiful and confident and forget what other people are wearing. If you like to have a feminine style, definitely do it.
14. Try on some makeup
A little makeup can help you look more feminine. Choose natural colors that highlight the features of your face and help make them more beautiful. Also, choose the color of the makeup with the color of the dress.
What you should avoid is excessive make-up and taking away your natural beauty. Don’t think makeup is what makes you beautiful. You are beautiful and makeup is only supposed to complete it a little; Of course, this only happens when you love yourself.
Do not forget the nail polish. It is better to use neutral colors for varnish. These colors are well combined with every outfit. Colors like pale pink look beautiful and feminine. It is also very important that the color of your fingernails is lighter than that of your toenails. If you want, you can consider more vivid colors like red or light blue for toenails.
15. Don’t forget the simple black dress
A little black dress (LBD) is a simple black shirt that many women have at least one in their wardrobe. This dress is very feminine and beautiful and is absolutely necessary for women’s style. They usually make it from various fabrics and only its color should be black. This dress has different styles and is therefore suitable for any occasion.
16. Make a feminine hairstyle
Although we are talking about dressing up in this article, we cannot forget makeup, hairstyle and accessories. One of the ways to complement your style and help add femininity when dressing feminine is your hairstyle. Wavy hair and soft curls look great and give you more elegance.
17. Do not use too many products on your hair
Remember that in women’s style, it is better to keep your hair in the most natural state possible. Excessive use of products such as oils and stabilizers will make your hair look unnatural.
18. Forget baggy clothes
Loose and baggy clothes have no place in women’s style. All the important principles to dress elegantly and femininely are summed up in showing the curves of the body. If you like these clothes, there is no problem, you can wear them in normal situations. Whenever you want to have a feminine style, choose clothes that fit.
19. A belt is also a good accessory
Belted dresses can be a great way to add a touch of femininity to your style. They show the waist line well and give you a stylish and beautiful silhouette. Especially if they are colorful, they can add color to your monochrome style.
It goes without saying that the belt should be elegant and simple, not one of those big studded belts with huge buckles! It is true?
20. Sandals are perfect for women’s style
One of the things that can make you look elegant and feminine is wearing sandals. Sandals can show off women’s feet, which are often smaller and more delicate than men’s feet, and can therefore add a touch of femininity to your style. Another point is that most women keep their toenails clean and stylish and apply nail polish. This also helps to make your appearance more feminine. Of course, it is better to choose them in elegant and feminine colors and styles, not in platform or sports models.
21. Wear tights
Tights are one of the most feminine accessories. Whether you choose its dark color or glass, in any case, it will make your feminine style more attractive and feminine. Of course, by tights, we don’t mean the thick fluffy supports you wear as pants in the winter!
22. The top should have pleats or ruffles
The top you choose for women’s style should be elegant and have special designs. For example, graphic tops or patterned blouses or sporty t-shirts are not appropriate. Instead, you should choose your top, blouse or blouse with lace embellishments, ruffles and pleated details.
23. Skirt and boot combination is completely feminine
One of the attractive sets to have an elegant and feminine look is the combination of skirt and boots. Wear a cute skirt and pair it with a pair of high heeled boots. You can choose long boots, don’t worry about the skirt falling on them. It retains its charm.
24. The left-wing shirt has a feminine appeal
Left-right shirts (wrap dress) or limp or whatever you call it, are shirts whose two sides are placed on top of each other and actually wrap around your body. These shirts are usually made of soft and flowing fabric and have a beautiful fall. The combination of this dress looks completely feminine and is especially perfect for summer days.
25. Try maxi skirts
Maxi skirts are another great option for creating a feminine look. These skirts give you a stylish and elongated silhouette and make you have a graceful and perfect style. Try different styles and colors to see which suits you best.
26. Knitted sweater
Another item in women’s style is wearing a cardigan over a dress or shirt. These jackets come in a variety of styles and colors. If you have its neutral color, you can wear it on almost anything.
27. Floral designs are great
Floral fabrics with happy and soft colors will give you a completely feminine look. Floral designs and small blossoms, in spring colors like pink, light blue and lavender, are perfect for a summer shirt.
28. Don’t over-complicate your clothes
If you want to dress elegant and feminine, make simplicity a priority. Keep your style uncomplicated by choosing the right combination of simple clothes that go well together. Simple clothes and designs don’t have to be boring. So try them without fear.
29. Do not follow trends
Fast fashion chains mass produce cheaper but trendy clothes with little regard for quality. These dresses are okay, but they are not suitable for a delicate feminine style. Cuts and patterns in fashion clothes are very creative and they use a lot of bold colors, but they become boring and disappear as quickly as they are created. Meanwhile, if you want your clothes to be elegant and feminine, you should wear stylish clothes that are of high quality and uncomplicated and will not go out of fashion for a long time.
30. Vintage shirts are also a good option
Vintage refers to clothes that have an old design and model. Of course, in other countries, unlike our country, many vintage clothes are sold second-hand and people wear them comfortably. This is despite the fact that such a thing is not common in our country and it is hard to find stores that sell used clothes. In other countries, people use old shirts, whether they belong to the family or bought in a store, to have an elegant and feminine style. This work also has an advantage, which is that textile waste is reduced.
Now that you don’t have such a possibility, you can at least find the models of those clothes on the Internet and let them sew for you!
31. Choose lighter raincoats and coats
Avoid very bulky fabrics for coats or raincoats. For women’s style, it is better to choose a light raincoat or coat made of thinner woolen fabrics or leather. To stay warmer, wear more layers instead of a thicker coat. Wear a scarf, shawl, jacket or blouse and complete it with a raincoat or coat.
32. Your clothes should be clean and stylish
Make sure the clothes you are wearing are clean and wrinkle free. Even if you have the best clothes, it won’t look good if it’s wrinkled or covered in dust and lint. Be sure to iron it before wearing it and remove pet hair or dust and lint from it with a lint roller. This is especially important for velvet or suede, which absorb everything.
33. Show the least amount of skin
This is the last point and it is very important. If your choice is a delicate and feminine style, you should show the least amount of your skin. Three-quarter or long sleeves, necklines that aren’t too open, lower necklines, and skirts that are longer than the knee are all basics that help with this. If you look carefully, Queen Elizabeth, Kate Middleton and many princes and queens around the world never show more skin than they should.
Other times when you want to dress casually or don’t want your style to be feminine, it doesn’t matter. You can wear whatever you are comfortable with.
How to dress like a woman, not a girl
In this section, we will explore tips that will help you dress like a woman, not a girl.
1. If you want to dress feminine, you should focus on curving your body and making your look elegant. Being stylish doesn’t mean dressing like a girl. Simpler clothes, more delicate accessories, designs that have a feminine color will help you create a feminine style.
2. Fabrics such as lace and silk are very important, but you should make sure that they are suitable for your age. Heavier and more stylish nets are for women, and lighter and more fancy nets are for girls. Distinguish between the two.
3. The color of the fabric is very important. When we say pink or bright green, we don’t mean wearing girly scream colors. Softer colors give you a more feminine vibe.
We said that ruffles and pleats enhance the femininity of the dress; But be careful, their model should not look like a girl. For example, in left-wing skirts, if it is attached to the skirt of a ruffled dress, it is completely feminine; But the ruffled floor skirt with vertical ruffles is for girls. Especially if it is short and hedged.
final word
Although there has been a revolution in women’s dressing since the era of Coco Chanel and many of its basic principles have changed, there are still people who like to dress elegantly and femininely. In general, the personality of some women is such that they tend to walk, dress and even look in accordance with their femininity. If you have such a desire, don’t be afraid of your true self. Don’t pay attention to the sportsmen and men around you. They are free to wear whatever they like, you should stick to your inner desires. Feminine style and dressing like a “lady” is not mandatory; But it will never disappear.
What do you think about this article? As a woman, do you tend to dress in a feminine style, or do you prefer a sporty or masculine style? Please share your views with us.
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